Monday, August 10, 2009

must learn to curb your desires

Feelings of inadequacy drive him to set impossible, perfectionist standards for himself: he must be ever richer, more successful, more worthy of love. Feelings of hostility creep between him and those from whom he craves love; they cannot love him, says his inner voice, and therefore he dare not love them.
And so on into the infinite variations of which the theme is capable. The infant, struggling to live and grow, strives from the moment of his birth to adjust himself to a real world which is at best no paradise. He must learn to curb his desires, to make friends with his environment, to meet the standards of his parents so that they may love him and con­tinue to care for him in his helpless, dependent state. His tiny per­sonality takes on the shape determined by his innate strengths and weaknesses in this struggle to survive. It is no wonder that he takes with him into manhood some burden of conflict and misunderstanding, and that this should emerge at some time during his life, generally in a period of crisis, as an undefined state of disturbance.

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  1. For instance, rats exposed to jingling noises, flashing lights, and other stressful experiences rapidly developed symptoms of the various stress diseases: rheumatic, allergic, and hypertensive disorders, especial­ly severe arteriosclerosis and persistent high blood pressure. When the ruts were given ACTH and cortisone, the symptoms subsided. The dis-imscs were checked, and actually reversed.

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  2. Health, then, seems to depend on the balance of these hormones. When stress continues too long, a breakdown may occur in this inte­grated defense system, at the point of production of one or some of these hormones. Thus when we supply these hormones medically, we at­tempt to restore the broken link so that the defense system can again function.
    "They are the first natural agents," the Journal of the American Medicine

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  3. why do doctors disagree?
    If medicine is a pure science, why is there not a single scientific an­swer to an illness? How is it possible for a patient to go from one doc-lor to another and receive a different diagnosis and a different treat­ment from each for the same set of symptoms?
    People talk about good and bad doctors. But we cannot dismiss the problem by saying that an individual doctor doesn't know his business.

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  4. Hypothyroidism: With regard to systemic therapy with prescription drugs - this kind of treatment is shown in the event that hair loss is accompanied by a manifest breach of thyroid function, hypothalamic-pituitary, adrenal glands, ovaries, lack of iron, protein, gross violations of function of the nervous system.

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  5. Yeast Infection : protect your family from infection, and help you get better soon.

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